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The Non-Judgmental Christian. The second stage of reshaping personal character: A compassionate heart

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The Non-Judgmental Christian

The Non-Judgmental Christian vividly outlines five lessons in the second stage of building leadership character – nothing to prove.  The core message is about compassion – developing tolerance for the faults of others softens our own hearts and unlocks often frozen, hardened feelings whose suppression robs us of peace.  This is the printed version.  E-book available on Amazon Kindle.

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The Non-Judgmental Christian describes in vivid detail the second stage of building leadership character – to live as if we have nothing to prove.  This is about self-acceptance and enjoying emotional peace in our hearts. It is the next step deeper after Stage I. A powerful and much-loved book by readers facing life-sized relationship challenges, it offers five lessons for leaders who are ready to dive into the heart of their spiritual journey.

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Weight 195 g
Dimensions 18 x 14 x 2 cm

11 reviews for The Non-Judgmental Christian. The second stage of reshaping personal character: A compassionate heart

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    “My eyes were opened to a new way of seeing and I am a new person. I don’t mean to exaggerate but this is true.” Valerie Balun, California

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    “The Non-Judgmental Christian” changed the way I saw myself, exposed judgments and resentments that I had no idea I was carrying, and revolutionized my situation. …in all these years I have not been nearly as impacted by anything else I’ve read (Bible excluded!).”
    Sherri McGregor, Youth Pastor, Nova Scotia

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    “I appreciated your book so much I have read it probably 6 or 7 times in the last year and am still trying to apply your suggested techniques and love it when I succeed and totally notice at least now when I fail! (lol) I want to order more copies because I want to share your wisdom with friends and family.”
    Brenda Waldorf, British Columbia

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    “Last week, two of my church members gave me your book “The Non-Judgmental Christian” and I must confess I had a hard time putting it down. Your ideas are so simple yet profound and life changing.”

    Reverend Michael Versluis, Sudbury, Canada

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    “I’m so fired up about this book that I praise it to each person I speak with! Thank you again and may God provide many more opportunities for this book to reach others as it has reached me!”
    Christine Lupton, Ontario

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    “I explained to my husband that it [The Non-Judgmental Christian] ‘humbled me’. I said, ‘I am very suddenly aware’ that I had been judging him. And of my judgmental behavior toward him. Followed by a very simple ‘I am sorry.’ D.W. wife and mother, Ontario

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    “I think out of it all, I am beginning to accept and experience that God wants friendship and a one-on-one even with me. I am very grateful to you and yours John. They are all a part of it. Both your books can reduce one to tears. It comes in the ‘reveal’, the transparency of the soul and the heart of a healed human being…being real. As I write, I think of another individual like yourself that convinces me in the inner most part of me of this need and importance of clarity and freedom that accompanies the work God is weaving in and out of us – Jean Vanier. In closing, may God richly bless you all.” ~Bonnie Jackson, Alberta

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    I first found your book THE NON-JUDGMENTAL CHRISTIAN at a Promise Keeper’s Convention in one of the Greater Toronto municipalities in Ontario. I believe it was in the Fall of 2004. It was on its own separate display table, and I perused it with great interest. There was a printed sign on the table top saying “This book will divorce-proof your marriage.” I saw that and puzzled “I am not worried about that.” As my wife thinks I spend too much money on books (Is that possible?) I turned and went back to my seat. On the way I got that queasy feeling I often get when I know I have missed the Lord’s will or opportunity. So at the next break I threaded my way through the 8,000 men all of whom seemed to be at the bookstore to get my copy. The rest is history. I could not tell you how many times I have gone back to review the book when I am tempted to try to control relationships or outcomes. I am sure you can imagine the amount of freedom I have found as the Lord has shown me His truth of the need to get the log out of my own eye. It is a standard part of any counseling I do.

    Truly, THE NON JUDGMENTAL-CHRISTIAN has made my list of top ten life-changing books of my Christian life.

    Blessings on you and your ministry.

    Joyfully,

    Ron Hӧrst,
    Rector Holy Trinity Anglican Church, Alberta Canada

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    “I have just read a book called ” The Non-judgmental Christian…..Five lessons that will revolutionize your relationships” by John Kuypers……I want to run up a hill ( in my mind anyway) and scream….”FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!”….I will probably be quoting this book for a while….so I apologize ahead of time….First quote……………..” Smart people already know the answer, Wise people let the Lord lead them to the answer…..The key to being an influential leader (or mom, wife, ect.) begins with one specific principal: You become willing to change some of your deeply held “beliefs.” Now before anyone thinks that I have been swayed by some heathen book, he he, he is talking about beliefs that we form that cannot be held up against the Bible…..ok?…ok!……”

    Anonymous, 36 yr old married woman from New York state

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    “In this easy to read format John outlines the ways that people create barriers that hurt each other and themselves. Baring his soul through sharing his own experiences, John’s book serves as a study guide specifically designed for men to help improve their relationships with their spouses. This book also serves a secondary purpose for all who read it – men and women alike – to examine themselves to see what they are doing to damage their relationships. This is well worth the read!”
    Wade Van Bostelen, Hamilton, Ontario

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    John, you have been on my mind as I have started reading your book, The Non-judgmental Christian” and I must say it is so Christ like, how we are supposed to be and treat others. I am a work in progress and continue to try to look at people with compassion and caring in order that I might be more like Jesus as I don’t always know their circumstances. Thank you for writing this book which outlines the way in which we should all try to live!

    Marjorie Gilmore, Illinois, USA

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